When I had my IUD inserted, the discomfort I felt was more intense than what I experienced during childbirth. Despite having discussed my pain threshold with my doctor, as a Black woman, I couldn’t shake off the feeling that my pain was minimized and overlooked. There’s a clear need for greater transparency regarding the potential discomfort associated with IUD placement.
It took nearly a year for me to fully acclimate to the IUD, but I chose to keep it because of its reliability and the convenience of not having to remember to take a daily pill. Additionally, it reduces my risk of cervical cancer, which is particularly significant for me given my history of high-grade precancerous cells. Just knowing the IUD is there provides me with a sense of security.
LIN C., 34
New York City
“Effective communication made a difference in managing my discomfort.”
I first learned about IUDs from my ob-gyn when I was 23, as a substitute for the Nuvaring. I selected Mirena for its user-friendliness and because my insurance covered it. Although I felt anxious on the insertion day, keeping an open line of communication with my doctor helped me navigate the discomfort.
I eventually switched to Liletta and recently had it removed since my husband and I are planning to start a family. The IUD was a low-hormone option that worked well for me without causing significant side effects.
EMILY L., 29
Tallahassee, Florida
“The nurse’s attitude was dismissive, insisting, ‘It’s not that bad.’”
My experience during the IUD insertion was distressing due to severe pain and a dismissive nurse. Although my doctor recommended the IUD, the painful procedure and lack of respect led me to reconsider my choice.
I strongly encourage anyone thinking about getting an IUD to research their healthcare providers thoroughly to ensure they receive respectful and supportive care.
ROSA P., 24
Brooklyn
“I reluctantly got one because I felt my future needed safeguarding.”
I opted for an IUD as a birth control method to help reduce period pain and manage ovarian cysts. However, the insertion was uncomfortable and resulted in complications like excessive bleeding and more cyst formation. Later consultations revealed potential side effects that I had not been informed about beforehand.
Looking back, I felt pressured to get the IUD for my own protection, and I wish I had been better educated about the possible risks involved.
Undergoing a traumatic IUD insertion can leave a lasting impression. It’s crucial to remember that one medical professional’s perspective shouldn’t dictate your choices. It’s always wise to seek multiple opinions and find a provider who genuinely listens to your concerns.
Mackenzie D., a 29-year-old from New York City, recounted her painful experiences with IUD insertions. She described the process as brutal, leaving her feeling faint and in severe pain both times. Despite the intense discomfort, she still recommends the IUD to friends for its benefits, such as lighter periods and minimal side effects.
Maria D., also from New York City, shared her challenging journey with IUDs. She faced extreme cramps and discomfort after both Mirena and Skyla insertions, with her gynecologist dismissing her concerns. After enduring a year of pain, she chose to have the IUD removed, and despite trying a different one, she ultimately decided to avoid them altogether due to continual discomfort.
Mari H., a 37-year-old from Atlanta, dreads the thought of having her IUD removed after a traumatic experience during insertion. She likened the pain to what she felt post-childbirth but without the relief of an epidural. The lack of preparation and empathy from her healthcare providers left her feeling overwhelmed and unsupported.
These accounts underscore the vital importance of advocating for yourself and tuning into your body when considering an IUD. While some women have positive experiences, others may endure significant pain and discomfort. It’s essential to ask questions, seek support, and prioritize your own comfort and well-being. Your body deserves respectful and compassionate treatment, regardless of what healthcare providers may suggest.
