Have you seen the latest tweet from the popular Bravo fan account @yolanda_parody?
They recently made a playful jab at Heather Gay from Real Housewives of Salt Lake City, humorously suggesting that she might take the substance from the body-horror film The Substance. This film features Demi Moore as an aerobics instructor who injects herself with a potion to regain her youth. While it’s all meant to be light-hearted, it definitely doesn’t come off as a compliment.
Reality TV stars, including Heather Gay, willingly share their lives with the public
They know that their actions and personalities will be analyzed for entertainment value. But does that mean their physical appearances should also be up for scrutiny? Comments like the one from @yolanda_parody are relatively mild compared to the barrage of insults these women often face regarding their looks. They’ve been called derogatory names like Shrek and Miss Piggy by their own co-stars on camera, so it’s easy to imagine the more hurtful messages they receive in private.
My goal isn’t to dictate your discussions or judge anyone’s appearance
It’s human nature to notice when someone has undergone a transformation between seasons, and there’s nothing wrong with that. However, as fans and as a culture, we might want to rethink our fixation on physical ideals and stop expecting women to explain their choices in pursuit of those standards.
Heather Gay is one of many Housewives who has been candid about her cosmetic procedures
She has openly discussed her use of Botox, lip fillers, Sculptra, and other enhancements to improve her look. As a self-identified “bad Mormon,” she co-owns a med-spa in Utah that serves locals seeking perfection. While aspects of Mormonism influence the lives of the Salt Lake City Housewives, the drive for youth and beauty appears to be a common aspiration for Housewives across different cities.
Let’s not forget that beyond the glitz and drama of reality TV, these women are real people with emotions
Instead of tearing them down based on their appearances, let’s celebrate their unique stories and achievements. Recognizing their individuality and accomplishments can foster a more positive conversation around reality television.
